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Hello. I'm a 23 year old guy and yes, there is this girl I like. We have been friends for about 6 or 7 weeks now. I'm wanting something more out of it and I'm about 99% sure she knows I feel that way. She's really cool and we connect really well...when we're together. She flakes on me a lot and then expresses a sincere apology a day or two later. Also, she doesn't pay all that much attention to me when we are with her friends. I understand I should get less attention when with others, but it's almost like I don't exist. By the way, her friends and I get along well. My friends on the other hand, keep telling me to quit hanging out with her b/c she's just a "tease". However, everytime I consider cutting all ties, she'll do something extremely cool or invite me to hang out or something. At first, I thought that she just didn't want to hurt my feelings, but now I am just confused. If she didn't want anything to do with me, she wouldn't do those occasional cool things or invites. I don't know if I can do the whole friend thing b/c I don't see her that way. What do you suggest? Thanks




Our Suggestion:
Let things go on the way they are going. You seem reasonably happy so why not stick with what is working pretty well.

If it turns out she is a tease then you can drop her then.

Good luck! George

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