Scared to fall Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I am a recently divorced middle age man and got into a serious relationship before my divorce was final. This relationship did not turn out at all and left me even more heart broken. Now I am in the situation of being alone all the time and wondering what i did wrong to deserve my ex wife leaving me for another guy and my ex gf leaving me for her ex husband where did i go wrong. I now look at most all women as users and treat them with a cold heart. How do i change these feelings because now everytime i date someone i dont give them the upmost "respect" they deserve Now i just look at women as mostly a piece of meat and not how they should be treated Our Suggestion: Go see a counsellor. You need help with understanding your feelings towards women and a quick answer over the internet is not going to help much. Operating with a "cold heart" is going to get you nowhere. You are not middle aged if you are age 21-30 which is what you checked off. That age is plenty young enough to change yourself. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes