Confused between Love and Friendship..Suggest AdviceDo you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Last year I started loving a girl whom I have been knowing from the past 3 years. She has been a very close friend of mine. I always admired her and also told her that I like her the way she looks and etc. We have even gone very close and have been involved in pre-sex cuddling. I have made love to her also. But offlate she started saying that she has another boy friend and she is seriousl looking for a relationship with him. She started gettign irritated with me sometimes for all silly reasons. She says that she talks with the other guy everyday night but when I ask her to me she gets irritated. Last week we had a very very bad fight wherein she also asked me to go away from her. So i decided that I need to go away from her. But after 2 days she herself called me up to talk to her. But I feel that she might have done that as she was feeeling lonely. The next day again she sent me a mail (which was basically for a help) and when I didnt respond she called me and started with talks like "where I am","Am I OK". But I dont know whether she called me to just get the help done or really she wanted to speak to me. When I decide that I have to go away she comes back herself and starts everythign again. and If I go close to her she gets irritated. I dont know what to do..Just confused... :( I dont want to loose her as I love her a lot...and I dont want to stop talking to her also. Our Suggestion: Don't be so close to her for now. Keep the distance so that she won't get irritated. She seems confused about what she wants so let her wonder a bit about your relationship. If you are too strong with her she will back away, so be nice to her but not too much. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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