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I am a 16 year old girl and i have found myself having deep feelings for a man aged 24. I know the age gap is quite big, but that is not what bothers me. My mum has no objections to this as she has known this boy for a fair while. He recently revealed to me that he has feelings for me, but made me understand that he is not ready for a relationship with anyone yet. He says he just wants to have fun at the moment. I do know that he brokw up his 2 year relationship about 2 months ago, but i feel as though he has had fairly sufficient time to be ready to begin dating again. I am willing to wait until he is ready, but i grow concerned. he has started treating me as merely a friend, no other contact is being made unless i make the first move. We also work at the same place and all i get out of him in a normal day is a 'dnt u say hello 2 me' and a 'cya l8er' before he leaves. I like this man too much to just be friends. I dont know what to do, how to act, what to say. Please help me, im in over my head and need some real advice.




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As much as we may want to, we can't make people act or feel a certain way. If he isn't ready, he isn't ready. A relationship takes two and if one isn't willing, there is no relationship.

Just be friends for now, that sounds like what he really needs.

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