Girls Claim my Guy is Cheating

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Visitor's Question:
yesterday at school these girls came up to me and told me that a girl said she had sex with my boyfriend. i asked him but he said he wouldn't. I don't know who and what to believe. COuld you give me some advice on how to tell if your boyfriends cheating or lying???




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So you didn't even talk to The Girl? You just had some girls come up and badmouth your guy? Why would you believe them over him? This guy is your boyfriend, who should be someone you can trust and talk to honestly. You haven't even had the "accuser" come and present anything, you just have rabble rousers trying to cause trouble. You asked your boyfriend and he says he is innocent. Hopefully your relationship is solid enough that you and he are honest with each other and have a level of trust built up.

If you're even going to lend any creedence to this story, talk to the girl in question. Say that you heard this story and want to clear it up. Either she says yes, or no. If she says yes, have her come with you to your boyfriend, he deserves to face his accuser. Then have her state time and place and so on. If she's lying, it should be easy enough to figure it out.

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