We Had Sex - Then He Lost Interest

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ok i use to really like this guy friend of mine, and he liked me too, but after we had sex he acted different around me like he did not like, but he still hung out with me just not as much. Everytime we hang out we end up messing around somehow. This just makes me like him even more.

I want to tell him but i don't want to scare him away because a couple months ago i was kinda pushy and he avoided me for awhile. A couple weeks ago he started talking to me more, but then he saw me with my ex so i think he thinks we are back together, so now he has been kinda avoiding me again.

I really like him and wanna be with him, but how do i know if he really likes me or is just using me? Should i just try to be his friend instead, since that was the time he really cared about me? How can i show him that I wont cheat on him or treat him bad like i did my ex????




Our Suggestion:
You made yourself available to this guy. He pursued you until he got sex and then he backed off. That was HIS choice. He could have spent just as much time with you. He chose just to use you for sex.

I would back off and look for another guy in your life. This one has had ample opportunity and has shown clearly what he's interested in. You deserve more than that.

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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