We're Friends, Had Sex and Things Faded Away Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: OK, I HAVE HAD A CRUSH ON ONE OF MY GUY FRIENDS FOR OVER A YEAR NOW. LAST YEAR WE WERE REALLY CLOSE, WE HUNG OUT ALMOST EVERYDAY. I LIKED HIM AND HE LIKED ME BUT IT NEVER REALLY WENT ANYWHERE. THEN A COUPLE MONTHS AGO WE ENDED UP HAVING SEX BUT AFTER THAT HE COMPLETELY IGNORED ME FOR MONTHS CUZ MY EX BOYFRIEND AND HIM GOT INTO A FIGHT ABOUT IT. WELL RECENTLY, ME AND THIS GUY HAVE BEEN HANGING OUT AGAIN AND MESSIN AROUND BUT WE ARENT CLOSE LIKE WE USE TO BE WHICH DRIVES ME NUTS. HOW DO I GET THINGS BACK THEY WAY THEY USE TO BE? HOW DO I KNOW IF HE REALLY LIKES ME OR IS JUST USING ME?? PLEASE HELP! I CARE ABOUT HIM ALOT Our Suggestion: Sex can really make things confused, which is why it's usually best to wait until you're really sure about the emotional side before you bring sex into the equation. Emotional closeness is something that has to be actively worked on. It doesn't just happen. So work on it every day. Find ways to have talks with him, spend time with him in non-sexual ways. Give that relationship a chance to grow and take hold again. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes