it's lost my confidence Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i am 14 and i am going out with a 19 year old and i really like him, but when i go and meet him he dosent talk to me and just drives his car with his mates and his mates have to do the talking to me or for him but it's lost my confidence in meeting him and i have gone really shy of even phoning him. please help cos it's really starting to hurt Our Suggestion: Without having all of the details, I would imagine his friends don't know you're dating, or if they do, maybe he feels awkward about the age difference. I wish I had more to go on, but that's about it. Besides, that is a rather big age difference. You may want to think about that, as well. Best wishes, Marc --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes