Running away together!

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my girlfriend wants to runaway with me but we dont know how, what , or where to live if we do all we know is that we haft to save enough money to support me and her but i need help on what to do?




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The first, burning question is why does she want to run away? Is it less that she and you want to be together and is it more that there's something horribly wrong at home? Does she come from a family where alcohol, violence, or abuse is going on? If so, then she needs some counselling, much more than you could help out with.

If it's just that you two want to be on your own, then have patience. Until you both can get jobs to support yourself then there's no way you can hold together a relationship while at the same time struggling to survive. It's just too tough and you will end up breaking up. Do you want that, or do you want to stay together?

I'd think long and hard about this before you enter into such a runaway situation. There's plenty of time ahead of you.



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