We have a son, but should we split up

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Me and my Boyfriend are both really young and have a 2 year old son. Things are really hard and i feel like he doesnt really want me around like he used to. I really love him but when i bring it up to him he gets mad and wont talk to me. What does this mean, should i forget him and move on.




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Since you have a son together, then you should try heroically to stay together to raise him as a team. But that requires both of you to participate in the relationship and it sounds like he's shutting you out for some reason. See if you can sit him down and talk with him openly about what's going on. What stress is he under? What is on his mind for the future? You need to find out what's going on in his head in order to plan properly.

You can always try counselling. There are the school counsellors or a trusted adult or even ministers/priests/rabbis who are always willing to help out. You need to find some way to increase the communication between you and your partner. Right now it's pretty tough.

I wish you the best and hope everything works out for you.



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