I like this guy but he keeps mentioning sexual things that Im not ready to do

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I like this guy but he keeps mentioning sexual things that Im not ready to do. I tell him that in not ready but he still brings them up but sometimes he is just kidding. I like him and enjoy being with him and talking to him, its just this that bothers me and I dont know what to do about it. He is so much more experienced with sexual things than I am and I havent done half the things he has before.Can you please give me some advice it would be much appriciated, thank you.




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It's good that you know you're not ready for more and you're sticking by it. Keep that up! When you are ready, you'll know and you'll be much better off by holding off until then. Good for you!

Now, how to handle this guy who's being pesky... Every time he brings up stuff, say, "and you'll do this with who? Cause I'm certainly not going to do that!" and treat it as a joke. Stand your ground and it will earn his respect.

It'll be tough for a while as he finds out you're not going to cave in to what he wants. But in the end, it's the right thing to do.

Good luck!

--Jenn



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