How can i help him to show his feelings?

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I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year. We both love each other very much and i know that he loves me a lot, but he has a hard time showing it. How can i help him to show his feelings? or what can he do to show his feelings? he says he says he loves me, but i need proof... actions speak louder than words.




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It's hard to force someone to show that they love you. It has to come from inside. But what you can do is offer suggestions of things he can do that you will take as a sign. Things like asking him to call you out of the blue. Or ask him to give you a card with a list of why he likes you. Ask him to compliment you. Ask him to hold your hand while watching a movie. Give him hints of what would be meaningful for you. Some guys just can't come up with stuff on their own, and chocolates and flowers are only useful once in a while.

The good part is that he says he loves you. Some guys can't even do that reliably. So gain some confidence in that.

Good luck!

-Jenn


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