I really want to take our relationship to the next level

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Theres a girl on my swim team who is a really good friend of mine. Her family comes over to my family's house on thanksgiving, and the fourth of July, etc. We've been friends for about 2 years now. I know she used to like me (from her friends, and just the way she acted around me), but as soon as I started to like her, it seemed to stop. I can't tell if she likes me the way she used to, or just as a friend. We go to movies all the time together, but I still can't tell. I really like this girl, and I don't know how to tell if she likes me too. Sometimes there are just awkward moments, and I don't know what causes those either. Sometimes it seems like we are really close, and others, it seems like she just doesn't feel comfortable. I really want to take our relationship to the next level, but I really don't know what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!



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You're great friends with her, so you should be able to open up an honest conversation with her that goes something like, "Did you ever think that you and I would end up hooking up?" all casual like, as if you weren't really concerned with the answer. See what she says and that will tell you a lot about where her head is.

We have some good tips on how to turn from a friend to a more-than-friend. Stop by and read them:
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/4

Good luck!
Jenn


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