Jealous about new boyfriend

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My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a month. Since that being not very long, I haven't established full trust in him yet. Today on the phone he asked "Would it make you mad if I hung out with other girls?" I didn't want to asnwer yes because that would seem somewhat as if I was overly jealous and don't want him to have female friends, so I said "I don't know". The problem is, I really do care if he hangs out with other girls because he is a very attractive person and very easy to get along with. He tells me that he loves me and would never cheat on me, but I still worry about it. Is there any real reason to worry? And how do I overcome this feeling of jealousy?



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As he has only been you boyfriend for a month, it is understandable that you are not sure about his faithfulness. It takes time to develop the trust that is so important to a loving relationship. The only way to build that trust is to let him hang out with other girls. If he cheats, it is better to find out now.

There are many tips on this site about jealousy. For example:http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682
and http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/advcat/8

Best wishes,
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com



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