Spying on boyfriend

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Should I spy on my boyfriend? I'm getting worried that he might cheat on me or something. I desperately want to find out if he's doing something. Can you help?




Our Suggestion:
Resist the temptation to spy on your boyfriend. If he catches you he will be very angry and perhaps break up with you. If you maintain a good basis of communication with him and if you trust him you shouldn't have to worry about him cheating. Discuss this subject with him and make it clear that cheating is something you won't tolerate.

Trust is a very important element of a good relationship. In order to have open communication, you need to trust your partner. So this means no spying.
You seem to have jealousy issues, so here are some tips on that subject:

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682

Hope this helps some,
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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