Betrayal still hurts Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: How can I talk about my hurt and anger and doubt if he sees the issue solved and doesnt wana hear it? It gets to the point where he does circles aroung the things that are killin me inside and the talk ends with :shut the fuck up" im sorry wat do u want me to do?? How can I overcome bertayal the past still hurts?? help! Our Suggestion: You are in a frustrating situation. Open communication is one of the most important elements of a strong loving relationship. Your man may be making one of the mistakes that some men make. He is trying to solve the problem when what you want is to discuss it. He doesn't understand that it can help hurt go away simply by talking about something. Explain to him that you are not looking for a solution to the problem itself, but want to continue discussing it as a form of therapy. If you can present your hurt to him in a non-threatening way, perhaps he will open up. If not, I'd recommend a family therapist. Meanwhile, here are some tips about fighting/arguments from our website: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23684 Good luck, George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes