Rude sister-in-law Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My brother'n'law and his family live around the corner from us and they have three children,two girls and a son. We have one child, a son. Our son gets on good with their son and I take our son around there to play, but sometimes find it diffcult because my sister'n'law can be rude in some comments she saids,which is a shame for my son and nephew. We just saw them last week, but she was rude (not overly rude)Suppose to go over there again this week but I dont want to, my Husband wonders why I dont want to go over there. If I say anything, he thinks I'm complaining, and I dont want to start any big fights between any of us. At the moment I'm going to keep my distance for a few weeks, but what do you think I should do in the long run? Our Suggestion: This forum is for romantic problems, but I'll take a shot at answering your question. The long term solution is to get your s-i-l to change her rude behavior, or for you to ignore it. It is very difficult to get someone to change their behavior. Here is a possible approach... when she is rude say "ouch that hurt." But I suspect that you will just have to live with her rude behavior. Not a very helpful answer, but the best you can do without raising a ruckus. Good luck, George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes