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Sometimes my boyfriend will tease me by mentioning ex girlfriend's names to make me jealous. It works. He laughs and will say obnoxious things about these women that I don't want to hear and I know are not true. I know he is not cheating on me, however, I still feel very insecure when he talk about these women in an intimate way. To make matters worse, the other day when he was teasing me he mentioned showing me a picture of one of the girls. A nude one! I don't mind if he has porn or whatever, but naked pictures of ex girlfriends really bothers me. When I told him this, he said it was okay for guys to have this. We live together and have been dating for over a year. Is this just insecurity, or do the photos need to go??




Our Suggestion:
You are probably a little insecure, but in any case, the photos need to go. It is unloving behavior on your partner's part to keep them and tease you about them. Ask him in a loving way is you could have a photo destroying party. I hope he sees things your way.

My best wishes,
George

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