Wants him but he has a girlfriend Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: ok i have been friends with my ex for 5 yrs. we dated when we first met and i took his virginity, i was also his first girlfriend. i broke up with him so he could have some time to grow up. we have messed around like everytime we see each other, but have not actually dated because i was waiting for him to come to me. we love each other and have always made it clear throughout anything. but now he has a girlfriend who is a virgin and i am so jealuse. this is the first girl he has dated in 4yrs(since me). i love him and want him back, but i cant have him back and we cant be just friends, because when we are together we switch back into relationship mode. i dont wanna ruin things with him and his new girl, and i wanna stop hurting. its been 4 months and i still cry at night. how do i let him go and get over him without being me and him hating me? Our Suggestion: Sorry you are in this tough situation. To get over an ex, please see our tips at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/54875 Time heals all, you will feel better. Maybe Santa will bring you a new boyfriend? Good luck, George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes