Getting him to return

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I dated this guy a few months ago who I really ended up liking. I let him do things "romanticaly" that I've never let anyone do before and started to show interest more than "just sex" as well as he, or so I thought. Two or three weeks into it..... I got the cold shoulder and when I finaly got a hold of him he told me that he got scared, and never ment to hurt me. Well he did! Anyways, we hooked up one more time about a month ago but didn't start anything up again other than sex that one night. I've been seeing him around more recently and my heart is hurting. I can tell that he thinks of me too and he even told one of my girlfriends (who he's friends with) that he cared about me. My question is, what can I do to start things over and try to re-see him without the complications of rushing back into sex.... which always complicates things, and to see if he wants to try again without scaring him away again.





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Since he cares for you, it shouldn't be too difficult to continue your friendship and expand upon it. Don't rush into romance this time, but spend your time building your friendship relationship. Spend time talking and getting to know each other better. Once you are really good friends, you are likely to advance your relationship.

Good luck,
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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