Time to break up Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Hi! Recently I decided that I don't want my girlfriend anymore, We talked about it and I saw that my reasons we're not based on anything. I told her mean things like : I want someone else, I had enought of you, I don't think we'll belong together ETC.... I decided I thought about her a lot but the bad way: I saw something bad and thought about it all day long, when I realized that - I tried to change it (3 weeks). The feeling that convinced me to try and leave her is dimming graduatly but it is coming back whenever I try to think about why I was trying to leave her in the past. Now I think about not wanting to be in this relationship and on the other hand wanting to be in it because I love her. Is it possible that love should involve suffering sometimes ? (by asking this I say that the answer is probably no and I ought to leave ---- those are the bad thought too....) I don't miss her a lot, what does it means ? I don't want to meet as frequent as she...is it healthy for us ? thank U in advance... Our Suggestion: Seems clear that you want to break up with her. Please read our tips on breaking up at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/47 Good luck, George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes