Boyfriend won't say he loves her Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: my boyfriend of almost 2 years has not told me he loves me yet- will he ever? he has been married 2 times and hurt plenty more- i tell him i love him and he response is nothing really- when i ask him if he loves me he just says maybe. that hurts! is ok to stay with someone who has not told you them words- i love him with all of my heart. he told me he will tell me when he is ready. but i still long to hear them words. i know he loves me and he shows me in his own way but i still want to him say it. thanks for your advice. Our Suggestion: Unfortunately, he has made it clear that he won't say "I love you" until he feels ready. You can't really change him because if you make him say it you know it won't be real. If you know he loves you, then that might be what you have to settle for. The only other choice is to leave him but you don't sound like that is an option. Keep on mentioning it from time to time and keep on telling him you love him. Time should work on your side eventually. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes