My boyfriend just went to this bachelor party at a strip club

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My boyfriend just went to this bachelor party at a strip club, and then the strippers came back to the hotel and gave everyone a lap dance. He didn't tell me at first, but he finally admitted to getting a lapdance. This totally freaks me out, and I can't help but be grossed out by it. I know that everyone was doing it, and everyone was was drinking, but it still really bothers me. He assures me that it didn't mean anything, but he doesn't really regret doing it. He said he actually enjoyed it. I am so disguested by the fact that another women was doing that to my man. I have been with him for a while and he has never done this before. I am truly upset. I don't really understand why guys do have lap dances, why they think it is no big deal. Am I overreacting? and what is the guys deal with lap dances. WHy do they do them, even if they are attached. (oh, and we have a good sex life, at least once a day, maybe every other day, but it is good. I am just confused why guys do this and am I overracting? What are your thoughts?

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Why do married women go to male dance reviews?

For most people it is human nature to want to experience different sexual stimulations even if they are perfectly happy with their own sex life. This doesn't mean that they necessarily sleep with other persons. However, many people think about it.

Anyhow, I wouldn't worry about it very much. Think of this as a mob mentality which is usually not very pretty but that's how life is.

Be happy you have him in your arms every day and be happy about your life!

Good luck,
George

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