I had this feeling that maybe there could be someone else

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When I first met this guy we spent basically every weekend together but him being new to the city he wanted to meet new friends. Well six months later we are still dating but now we get together on the weekends but on like a saturday afternoon or sunday. He recently told me that i needed to let him know in advance if i wanted to something so he didn't make other plans, well i try and every time i get the same thing well i'm going to my friends for a bbq, or my friends and i are going to the bar to have a few drinks. I'm confronted him about it that is he ashamed of me or something and that i don't want to be pushed to the side anymore. I had this feeling that maybe there could be someone else cause he does have accounts on websites and stuff but i don't know, did he just lose interest in me? Am I just being selfish cause i want to spend time with my boyfriend or could there be a possiblity "friends" is not plural?




Our Suggestion:
You are probably right that he has lost interest and/or found a new girlfriend.

Your options are not many. If he's drifting away you'll be clutching at a ghost if you try to pull him back.

There is one possibility that comes to mind and that is to rekindle your love. We have a webpage devoted to just that subject. You may find it at:

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Give it a try and see what happens.

Best of luck!
George

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