he's told me that he doesn't want to do anything because we work together.

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Visitor's Question:
Hello,

I work with a guy that I have developed feelings for. We have been flirting for a long time, and I know that he is very attracted to me, but he's told me that he doesn't want to do anything because we work together.
Even so, his flirting doesn't end, and he just keep sending vibes throughout our work day.
BUT, there are times (especially if we are totally alone), that he becomes very serious around me, and he won't remotely act as though he likes me.
I am very confused with this behavior and could use alittle help understanding. Thank You.




Our Suggestion:
You need to take him at face value.

He says he can't have a relationship with you because your work together.

Nevermind than many people do that already. You need to become friends with him and forget, for the time being, being lovers. He shouldn't have a problem with being friends and that will probably lead to where you want to be.

Good luck!
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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