I met a boy. He's ten years older than me and I swear I love him

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I met a boy. He's ten years older than me and I swear I love him. I think about him often, and I count the days in between our conversations, so when its been a week i'll instant message him with a well thought out conversation. I always read his away messages he puts up, its a ritual for me to check his internet page not only to see what he posts and to see what girls are on there and how he communicates with them. Typically, I'll wait a month before going to the club he goes to. I've grown very obsessed, i've began to think and talk like him. Him and i have slept together, many times, and every time he tells me that he loves me, or he wants to own me. He's never been rude or offending towards me, he's always very polite. he never "flirts" with me in public, unless he's drunk. It gives me complete head spins. Honestly, i don't know him very well at all, but i can't get him out of my mind. I can understand and accept that i'll never be his girlfriend, but i have no idea how to get him out of my head. I'm a very happy girl, but when i think of him, i get so blue... and i'm unable to concentrate on all the great things in life. Please, offer some advice. Thank you




Our Suggestion:
Are you sure you could never be his girlfriend?

Try thinking in that direction for a while. If you are sure you couldn't be then enjoy your pleasures while you may.

When you get blue, ask yourself how much bluer would you be without him. Then enjoy the great and wonderful things of life in his honor.

Good luck!
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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