Well we decided not to have anything to do with each other anymore

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Hi, this is a long story/question but here goes. I was dating this girl for 2 years. the first year and a half went great, she seemed to love me and I loved her, yes we both did things to upset one another but fixed them for the most part. Well when we started dating I had 2 rules she had to follow from the start that she knew about, 1. no smoking and 2. no guy friends. She stopped smoking and didn't have any guy friends anyways. Things were great, we spent everyday together and did everything together, well when we got to the last 6 months she stopped coming around so much and I found out she was hanging out with people she wasn't suppose to and was smoking most of our relationship behind my back. Well we decided not to have anything to do with each other anymore but a month before that i realized i was in love with her. Well 3 weeks passed and I felt like sh*t everyday of those 3 weeks but I asked her to come over and see me at the end of the 3rd week. I made the mistake of crying and telling her I was miserible without her, she told me that her life was fine but also admitted that she still loved me or had deep feelings for me cuz she said that she loved me but wasn't in love. Well my question is this, after 2 years of being around her and not seeing each other for 3 weeks we met up and hugged and kissed, I know she wants her space but is there ANY chance things will work out? and from all you have read, is she in love with me?




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You got your answer from the source and you should believe her until she tells you different.

The answer she gave you was that she was not in love with you but that she loved you.

Will this work out? Don't know. It can go either way. Your situation seems more favorable for it working out because you two are able to talk things out.

Good luck!
George

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