Should I be a man and let her know how I feel, and risk rejection

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I am pretty close friends with a woman I work with. We have gone out together a couple of times, but one day I starting to have feelings for her. I tried to dismiss it as a crush, and the feeling would disappear. Unfortunately I fing myself liking her more, and more. I think she knows how I feel, but my instinct tells me that I'm not her type. Should I be a man and let her know how I feel, and risk rejection, and the whole office know what happened, or play it safe and pray she makes the first move?




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Go for it!

Rejection is no big deal... and I think she would not want to spread it around the office.

Good luck! George

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