WHy is she being warm and cold later on?

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My colleague recently just took my phone while i was sitting on the other side of the table and saved her phone number in it without me knowing but i kind of suspected it cause i heard the saving ringtones. When she returned it, i checked and sure it was, she saved her number in there but i pretended not to know. We haven't really known each other for a long time and yet she saved her phone number in my cell phone. She then proceeded to use my phone to call hers(i think just to obtain my phone number)..what do you make of it?

After work, that night...i sent her a text message and we just had a chat that day and the day after.

Also, at one point i told her that i had some free time the next day and told maybe we could take a walk around campus or somewhere, just to spend time since we were chatting about going to places and stuff.

she replied,
its so cute the way you try to tell me that you want to spend time with me, its sweet how you're so shy


That all happened in two days and the third day she didn't seem interested in my text messages and never attempted to contact me. Is this one of the play hard to get things? WHy is she being warm and cold later on? I'm meeting her again soon for work purposes..

I hope you can reply ASAP.

Thank you so much!




Our Suggestion:
Give things a chance to develop.

She sounds very interested in you but is not necessarily going to be in contact with you every day or, at this point, have time to chat nicely whenever you text her.

When you meet her again, be casual but be interested. Ask her to do something with you again.

Best wishes! George

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