What will my parents think of me if they find out that i did have sexSuggest AdviceDo you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i am 15 going on 16 and i just started dating one of my good friends and he keeps talking about how he wants to be with me and about having sex. i dont know what to say to him cause im scared if i say no im not ready that he wont have interset in me anymore and plus im scared if i do have sex that it will hurt really bad so and what will my parents think of me if they find out that i did have sex so please i need advice from someone! Our Suggestion: Knowing you're ready is a very important thing. You probably don't think about it much at the time, but the moment you lose your virginity is really something you remember for the Rest of Your Entire Life. It's something friends always ask you about. It's something new boyfriends ask you about. It's something your kids, if you have kids, are really eager to know. It's one of those Turning Moments in your life. And if it's a decision you make poorly, it's something that can haunt you for the rest of your life. "I lost my virginity in a slimy hotel". "I gave it up in the back seat of a car." It might seem like a fun adventure at the time, but after a few months it begins to feel really ... icky and nasty. Never let anyone pressure you into anything. The perfect sex is about you feeling REALLY GOOD. Sex is about feeling great about YOURSELF. If someone has to talk you into it, it's WRONG. If the situation feels uncomfortable, it's WRONG. Life is way too short to be doing things that you don't enjoy. It's YOUR life, it's YOUR body. Wait until it's someone that you are REALLY comfortable with, that you love being with, that you love touching, that you love touching you, and that you're in a PLACE that you feel totally comfortable. Believe me, you'll know it when you find it, and when you find the right partner. In that situation, it can be a completely amazing experience. If instead, you let someone pressure you (even gently with "I really love you!") then you'll feel icky for the rest of your life, and something which could have been beautiful and romantic will now be forever tainted. Sex for the first time can hurt a lot or not at all; and, your parents would be very, very disappointed in you if they found out. But the main thing is how you would feel about yourself. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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