He's Got a Girlfriend

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If you and your friend like each other but he/she has a girlfriend and people are saying he also has someone else on the side what should you do?




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Whether or not he has a THIRD girl, the fact that he has a girlfriend is the key. A relationship is always about honesty and trust. He HAS a relationship. If he cheats on her with you, it means he doesn't value a relationship. That means equally he doesn't respect YOUR relationship. Someone can't be "totally true" to one person and cheat and lie to another. If that guy is *capable* of cheating and lying to someone who believes in him, it comes down to who he chooses at the moment to cheat on - and while it may not be you at the moment, the moment will probably come soon enough that it IS you.

I would keep him as a friend. If someday he is single and you are interested, that's one thing. But if he HAS a girlfriend and even seems slightly interested in betraying her, that is NOT a friend to believe in.

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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