Am in need of some serious advice so I don't mess things up

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Hey M8, Ive been seeing this girl for about 2 months and were both still virgins and have never done anything sexual with anyone! When were making out i get a semi erection an didnt think this was a problem, but then when i was at this party the other day we went into a spare bedroom and she got me on my back an got on top of me and started making out and gettin more intimate again but i didnt get anymore of an erection and in the end it went away, and i am worried i might have a problem. Do I? Also when it comes to being sexual i do not know what to do at all, and am in need of some serious advice so i dont mess things up. As in how to pleasure her without having sex, and when we do what i need to be doing. Please Help!




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You aren't getting a full erection and lost your erection partly out of nervousness and because your penis is used to being handled. It's perfectly normal.

Here is a normal progression for sex: feeling with clothes on, feeling under the close, fingering, oral sex, regular sex.

It is a good thing to ask her if she is comfortable doing certain things but this often occurs without conversation. If she pulls back then stop. Then talk with her about it. Go at a comfortable pace for both of you.

Good luck! George

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