So it went in and out. Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: me and my boyfriend were messing around and we got into the moment and he put it penis in me, without any penatration, for about 20-30 seconds. so it went in and out. am i still a virgin? Our Suggestion: If he went in and out then you are not a virgin. You said he did not penetrate you. I think you meant to say that he did not ejaculate (cum) inside you. Penetrate means to enter. I hope he had a condom on since what he did could get you pregnant. He should always use a condom whenever his penis gets close to your vagina. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes