We only held hands like 7 times Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I have a question about the topic "Under 18 / Minor Dating an Adult". In your text, it states "If an adult now touches them at ALL in a sexual manner including kissing, they are sexually harassing that minor." I am 18 and my girlfriend is 14. all we did that was considered "contact" was only holding hands and hugging. We only held hands like 7 times and rarely hugged throughout our 1 year together. Does that mean I am doing illegal? Our Suggestion: The advice on the webpage is describing the most strict interpretation. Different states have different laws. The only way to find out for sure is to consult a lawyer. I imagine you don't want to or can't approach a lawyer. You can also get advice by calling a sexual abuse hotline. 1-800-856-4673 is a national hotline for sex abuse. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes