One of our question-writers had her bf of 16 months break up with her via text. What do you think? Was he cold and heartless? Or efficient?
One of our question-writers had her bf of 16 months break up with her via text. What do you think? Was he cold and heartless? Or efficient?
Yes, it was pretty cold and heartless to break up via text… but he might have done that because he couldn’t stand to see his girlfriend cry because he knows that if he saw her cry or saw her reaction when he told her, that he would feel horrible for it.
I agree that he probably did it to shield himself from pain. I also agree that doesn’t make it right. A person mature enough to be in a relationship in the first place should be mature enough to handle himself responsibly when it comes to dealing with challenges in it. Either he’ll have to learn that lesson or he’ll be in for some painful future relationships.