I totally agree with Birdie Being friends first is important but my situation is a little different I met my hubby one weekend and 2 weeks later I was moved in with him and we got married two half years later and we have been married for almost 12 years and we have no plans of getting a divorce because he is a devote Catholic and his family is very strict about divorce. He has also told me he will never get a divorce. but that is my situation not reccommended for all but it worked for me

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