Hi Baby & welcome to the forum. smile

Well, I'm English and from my knowledge of American TV, 'making out' can have a variety of meanings.

Do you mean he just holds hands, puts his arm around you or kisses you, or is it going further than that? Are you talking about having sex?

Sorry to be blunt, but you sound very young and not too sure that you even want this.

Is he forcing his attention on you?

Do you like him?
Do you want this?
Does he bother to check whether you want his attention?
Do you say that you do, or act as if you do?

I think that teenage boys, even if they really like you, might act as if there is nothing between you in front of parents ~ because they are shy or embarrassed or want to keep things private.

I'm just concerned that you might be allowing things that you don't want or allowing things for which you are too young.

There are boundaries, I feel, depending on your age & his; your feelings & his; what your parents think, etc.

Remember, that once sexual activity becomes involved there are matters such as disease, pregnancy, the law and emotional concerns to be taken into account.

Be very careful.

Don't do anything you don't want to.
Don't do anything illegal.

Take care & perhaps it would be a good idea to have a chat with your Mum ~ it sounds as if you feel uncomfortable about all this.


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