Both of my sons had smaller weddings as well. And I thought they were just find no one had to go broke and the weddings were very nice.
My older son they just had lots of hor du houres (don't know how to spell it to lazy to look it up) and a DJ which was one of their friends.
My younger son got married outside at a lodge in Upper Minnesota on Lake Superior. We stayed there for the week-end in a cottage which was beatiful right on the lake. They did all the table decorations she ordered her dress on line and they did cupcakes instead of a cake they also had tons of candy on the tables it was a sugar additics dream. They only had about 75 people or maybe a little less. We had a great time at each of their weddings you did not feel rushed or pressured or anything it was very relaxing. Their wedding was almost like a vacation with a few parties thrown in.
