So I've been in a relationship with this guy for the past 2 1/2 years. Everything has always gone smoothly between us..at least until recently. I moved away to attend college and now we see each other once every two to three weeks. He has become very clingy and jealous, always questioning where I go and making a scandal every time I do something slightly out of the ordinary. I can't deny that I feel annoyed by this at times, especially since I've never given him any grounds to not trust me. He's my first boyfriend and I've started to feel as though I've missed out on the whole dating scene by staying with him for so long. I've developed a close friendship with another guy I met while at college, but lately it feels as though things are progressing into something more than a friendship. He's told me repeatedly that he likes me, and despite having turned him down I can't distance myself from him since I definitely have feelings for him too. Everyone that I've talked to has told me that perhaps taking a break from my boyfriend is what I need at this time, but I'm just not sure. I'm scared to do anything rash that might jeopardize our relations and hurt him beyond the point of no return. I don't even know how to bring the issue up to him since he remains oblivious to the whole situation..
