That's like ours. Joe's parents have money and wanted a big affair but i guess you could consider mine from the other side of the tracks. So we're just doing it backyard style... I think the total on our guest list is 38 or so including kids. a friend of the family is letting us do it at their house in a back field filled with fruit trees and surrounded by old growth forest. after the formalities it's pretty much going to be a bbq... smile fancy white dress in the woods and buffalo wings, shall be interesting.