Robin its sounds like your in a difficult situation.
I would not say anything to other friends as it very possibly could get out to the two people whom you may not want to say anything about it.

I'd sort of advise you to remain friends with Steve and Shelly and down the road someone will come along that you can actually call your boyfriend.

Question does Steve know that you feel awkward around other guys?
Maybe you can get a closer friendship with Shelly and talk to her about guy/girl relationships.

I think if you were to do anything now with Steve you may loose your friendship with both of them. Who knows what will happen in the future. I can almost guarantee that Steve and Shelly will not last forever. I certainly did not stay with my first few boy friends and believe me I did not have lots of them either. In high school every one thinks they are madly in love but in most cases no one lasts.



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