Well first off you need to learn to like yourself so you don't let others treat you like they are treating you.
I hate to say this but you moved in with this guy way to fast and he seems to have a control issue. I guess I myself would say you need to get away from this guy.
Is there a possiblity that you could move in with your mom and help share expenses until you are on your feet?
There are other guys out there quit letting him make you feel sorry for him. They say the only one you have control over is yourself so believe me if you think you are going to change him your not.
So move out or get him out and start working on yourself. If you don't you will be just in for more of the same.
Just ask yourself would you want your daughter to be in this relationship if she were you? Or would you want her out of it?
