OK - I have a couple of questions. Was she at the bar alone or was she out with friends. If she was at the bar alone - that should be a red flag as to her intentions for the evening.
Don't be a sap - think about it - when a guy is wanting some fun on the side one of the most common "lines" is how unhappy at home they are and what a [censored] they are married to.
I am sure she is lonely - but that is part of being married to someone in the service.
Did you expect her to tell you that she is just looking for a good time.
Please remember how easy it is to enjoy a coupling when there is no baggage involved.
One more question - when is it that she is going to spring her two kids on you???
Please forgive me for being so cynical, but sometimes it is the realistic way to look at things.
