I seperated from my wife Nov 2007 after 28 years of marriage. My divorce was final June 17, 2008. After my separation I began talking to someone and we started dating. I thought we were developing a realtionship that would last, however I am beginning to wonder. When holidays come I am more or less forgotten. She spends all her time with her two daughters, one moved to Virginia last summer, and two grandkids. During the month of December I have seen her two times because she chooses to spend her free time with the above. For the next three nights for example, she volunteered to watch her grandkids, ages 2 + 4. Saturday she planned on riding back to Virginia with her ex-son inlaws mother to take the 2 year old back. I expressed my disappointment today about never getting to spend any time with her. Am I being selfish? I can't understand why she never wants to spend time with me if she "love me" like she says.
