when i can't decide on something after a long time,,, it generally means that i'm not ready to decide yet. when it comes down to something that important... you will KNOW what the right thing is. there won't be a decision to make. sorry i can't help you except to say use your heart AND your head.
one question... do ladies #1 and #2 know they are BOTH with you?
if they don't, you may destroy their friendship. if their friendship is strong... you could be the one left out in the cold. it is hard to trust someone who is decieveing you right off the bat.
