I saw this on your other thread:
'His best friend is a girl and i found out he has been saying mean things about me to her, and now she thinks im a [censored]'
http://www.wineintro.com/forum/ubbthreads.php/topics/412320This makes things more complicated.
People talk about their problems to their friends, so it is understandable that he might confide in her, but it still makes the situation difficult.