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help. i loved my girlfriend. i did. i dont know whats happened. i just dont anymore. i dont want to explain it to anyone for i'd just sound like a fool. i loved her once and i dont love her anymore and i want to leave her. but she has me blackmailed in a way. she says she will kill herself if we ever broke up. its only been 6 months so far and i dont know how to end it.
can anyone reply. please send an email if you have any ideas that arent the simple "tell her the truth"
wertrulz@hotmail.com
please

I was in this problem last year. Tell a superior, a councilor, anyone who can help her and explain that you think she might be sucidal. Then you have to do it. Do it gently, but let her go. It's hard, but do it. And then don't ignore her after but don't see her either. Talk online but try to keep it to a slight min. That way she has the comfort. However if she tries to pull you in again, stay firm. Explain this is for the best. She probably won't. Don't worry. Have someone on guard just in case. Tell her best friend.

Good luck.

Hi and welcome anomyness & punkexcitesme.

This is a very difficult one. And you are not the only person posting who is concerned about the emotions of their partner should they call it off.

I agree that ending such a relationship sounds like the best thing, but I too would be really worried if such threats had been made.

This person needs help, I feel. Try to get counselling and other support ~ for both of you. You both need support at the moment.

Maybe the doctor or the church could help ~ or friends & family.
I do hope that everything works out ok.

Good luck.