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ok i have liked this girl all through grade 9-12 than in grade 12 i finally asked her out to movie and she said yes but it was at the end of the year and after the movie we kinda never said we should do this again or anything and i tried phoning her 3 times but she wasnt home so i've waited 3 weeks now cuz we just graduated and dont go to school together anymore but i still wanna ask her out again and im just wondering how i should do it, if i should visit her at her work (restaurant) she's waitress, or phone her or sumthing, i also want to know a good place to take her thats a better place than a movie and if theres anything funny i can say to start up a conversation cuz im not good at starting conversations but once i get going i can do well. Thanks for any advice.

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friends go to movies together all the time. go someplace where you can actually talk next time. I suggest a chill dinner somewhere or a park or something like that. Even a place like an arcade, depending what she's into. =]

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Conversation works best if you are showing an interest in the person. Ask her about her favourite ...
... subjects, holidays, animals, hobbies, etc, etc.

She may then ask about yours, so have some respones ready ~ then just let the conversation flow.

As The_Zookeeper said, the problem with the cinema is that you can't chat & get to know each other.

Interupting her at work could cause problems, depending on the place, if it is feasible, you could just pop in and ask if you can meet her at break or lunch.

Or maybe you could wait for her to finish her shift and see her after work.

If she agrees, then say that you haven't seen her around, but that you enjoyed going to see that film and would she like to go somewhere else.

Do you have a local ice-rink or bowling alley, perhaps?
Perhaps she would like to play badminton or tennis ~ or watch a game?


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I just read this very cool book called the System, by Roy Valentine. I learned more about picking up girls with this book than in all my years of dating. I wish I had the book when I was in college. I really recommend this book for guys looking to get hooked up.

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Welcome to the forum gabriel14.

Sounds interesting!

Well it did, until I checked it out.

'This is not a book about romance, relationships, or how to find the woman of your dreams. ... This book is about achieving one goal dear to men everywhere: getting laid TODAY. It teaches you how to identify the right woman, seduce her, take her home, and have sex with her within minutes of seeing her for the first time.'

http://www.amazon.co.uk/System-How-Get-Laid-TODAY/dp/097291871X

In other words, it teaches young men how to have no respect for girls and women as individuals, but how to treat them as objects.
If that's what most men really want, well it's just as well women and girls know that.
Hopefully not all young men are like this!

This book does not give the advice I would give to young men hoping to have a normal friendly respectful and equal relationship with girls.


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Sorry not to notice before, but this is all spam:

Originally Posted By: noah_3
ok i have liked this girl all through grade 9-12 than in grade 12 i finally asked her out to movie and she said yes but it was at the end of the year and after the movie we kinda never said we should do this again or anything and i tried phoning her 3 times but she wasnt home so i've waited 3 weeks now cuz we just graduated and dont go to school together anymore but i still wanna ask her out again and im just wondering how i should do it, if i should visit her at her work (restaurant) she's waitress, or phone her or sumthing, i also want to know a good place to take her thats a better place than a movie and if theres anything funny i can say to start up a conversation cuz im not good at starting conversations but once i get going i can do well. Thanks for any advice.


Originally Posted By: gabriel14
I just read this very cool book called the System, by Roy Valentine. I learned more about picking up girls with this book than in all my years of dating. I wish I had the book when I was in college. I really recommend this book for guys looking to get hooked up.


http://www.wineintro.com/forum/ubbthread...true#Post197389

Same conversation here:

http://www.mannacabana.com/cabanaboards/showflat.php?Number=483302

On this one, it is austin88 who liked the girl and noah3 who recommended the book.

Same story here:
http://forums.htrnews.com/viewtopic.php?p=26316&sid=12b771c6eb93e19391397dd31d0a442f
http://www.stlouielouie.com/viewtopic.php?t=463&sid=70799aa863fdba12275cf8633e4c3a20
http://forums.sscentral.com/index.php?showtopic=16283
http://my.expatica.com/c:nl/forum/viewtopic.php?p=721386&sid=1bedb89cdfcf24db641dea44cca772ef


Originally Posted By: noah_3
My girlfriend is non-responsive and i can't tell if she really loves me. Find out if we have a future together.
Does she truly love me or not?
http://www.wineintro.com/forum/ubbthread...true#Post198033


This one has the non-responsive girlfriend story:
http://www.makemeking.com/forums/showthread.php?p=526719


"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.

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