Thanks, is it Val? I need to get the site updated. I post on a lupus and autoimmune board, as well as some ITP boards. People who deal with pain and fatigue and other debilitating and/or disorienting conditions display a realism and grit that speaks to us all. Life is now. It is too short to be unhappy. Not everything can ever be just as you like, but it is wondrous, just the same.