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PDM #348414 01/23/09 12:57 AM
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What do you mean by "How would it go down"?

Maybe, start hanging around with her around college would help.

Yea, thats true. I got her one last year. Well it was one sent throught her email, which she did like. laugh

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I suppose I mean how would she take it, now that she has a boyfriend ~ and how might he take it?
Also, is it likely to make her more wary of your friendship and therefore more likely to keep her distance from you?

Hanging around with her around college, if you are not a student there, might have the same effect.
Popping in to see her might be ok, but, if she is happy with her boyfriend, visiting regularly might not have the effect that you are hoping for.

On the other hand, if she likes you, and discovers that her boyfriend isn't all she had hoped he would be, then she might like to have you there to turn to.

You are going to have to read the situation very carefully, so that you are there for her as a friend, without being too intrusive regarding her relationship with her boyfriend. smile


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She was fine about me giving her a valentines card. I don't think he knows about it.

I went up last friday to give her a card, and I also gave her a couple of hugs a kiss on the cheek. laugh I said about coming up once or twice a month and she was fine with that.

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I'm very pleased for you, that you are able to keep your friendship going smile


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Cheers, me to. laugh I just want to become closer again.

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Good luck smile


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cheers laugh But I'm not sure what to do next, tho.

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